Hey guys as i was talking about standing up for your sisters ( girls ) those you know. The main " syndrom" of many of us is that we are gutsy enough to make the decision. And yes we are afriad deep down that we will make the wrong decision. Decisions that one we will blame ourselves. We dare not stand by our decisions even if it is the wrong one. We trained that when we do wrong we must cover up. We are also not train to take risk and will always play safe. Secondly i think we tend to divert our attention to other things when we are suppose to focus on the goal. We were named a leader and am a leader by nature. We should take lead and with power comes responsibility. We should be responsible of our love ones. Their hearts and their bodies must be our main pirority. Lastly but most importantly, We must be a people of God. If we lean on other things it will fall. If we lean of God we will stand and stand tall. By this I want conclude by two poems to challenge both guys and girls. I got sweep off my feet when i read those two.
This is a poem by Ann Landers for the girls :
I have leveled with the girls from Anchorage to Amarillo
I tell them at all marriages are happy.
Its is the living together afterward that's tough
I tell them that a good marriage is not a gift
Its an achievement.
That marriage is not for kids.It takes guts and maturity
It seperatess the men from the boys and the women in girls
I tell them that marriage is tested daily by the ability to compromise
Its survival can depend on being smart to know what is worth fighting about
or making an issue of or even mentioning
Marriage is giving and more importantly , its forgiving
and it is almost always the wife who must do these things
Then as if that were not enough, She must willing forget what she forgave
Often that is the hardest part
Oh, I have leveled all right
If they don't get my message,Buster
Its because the don't want to get it
Rose-coloured glass are never made in bifocals
Because nobody want to read the small prints in dreams
For the guys Lena Lathrop says it all in the book A Woman 's question:
Do you know you have asked for the costliest thing
Ever made by the Hand above?
A woman's heart, and a woman's life -
And a woman's wonderful love.
Do you know you have asked for this priceless thing
As a child might ask for a toy ?
Demanding what others have died to win,
With the reckless dash of a boy
You have written my lesson of duty out,
Manlike,you have questioned me
Now stand at the bars of my woman's soul
Until I shall question thee
You require your mutton shall always be hot,
Your socks and your shirt be whole :
I require your heart be true as God's stars
And as pure as His heaven your soul.
